UNDERSTANDING THAT JUDGING AND GETTING JUDGED HOLD NO VALUE. One of the hardest things in life is ruminating and getting hurt about what other people think about you and your life.
Know and reiterate the following things to yourself.
- That those people know your name, but not your story
- That they have heard what you have done, but don't know what you have been through.
- That it is merely their perception about you and they haven't lived your life for you.
- That it is unfair for them to read page 754 of your book called life and thinking that they know you completely. So don't give much attention to their misconceptions.
- By believing, "If they were in your shoes living your life, they would fall in their first step" and staying strong.
People judge. People hurt. People leave. You need to be stronger and sometimes you need to get hurt real bad to understand life and you will mature. To live is to experience all the emotions. Pinnacle of happiness and the nadir of sadness. Sometimes people just are eager what happens in your life, they DON'T CARE. Not everyone has the same mentality as you and not everyone you truly care about, cares about you. You know who really cares at your worst times.
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